I did some research about the prevalence of FA and feederism, and it coincided with what I already assumed about the distribution of feeders and feedees from my online and real world experience.
For every 1000 men who are fat admirers (FA):
- There are about ~50–150 women with a feederism fetish attracted to their own weight gain
- There are about ~3000–4500 obese women (BMI 35+) (regardless of the fetish)
- There are about ~300–600 extremely obese women (BMI 50+)
So if you are a man looking for a woman who is into the kink, your chances are low, as there are only 50-150 of them per every 1000 of you.
However, if you are just looking for a BBW big enough for her weight to be very noticeable, there are 3-4 of them or more, for every one of you.
Even SSBBWs who are big enough for their weight to significantly affect their life, there are plenty of them to have a reasonable chance to find one, but then you have to be prepared for them to feel miserable about their weight and hopefully you can love them for themselves and accept that they don't want to gain any weight, and hopefully still make their life better by loving them and accepting them, compared to a non-FA who might not find them as beautiful as you do.
For every 1000 men who are fat admirers (FA):
- There are about ~50–150 women with a feederism fetish attracted to their own weight gain
- There are about ~3000–4500 obese women (BMI 35+) (regardless of the fetish)
- There are about ~300–600 extremely obese women (BMI 50+)
So if you are a man looking for a woman who is into the kink, your chances are low, as there are only 50-150 of them per every 1000 of you.
However, if you are just looking for a BBW big enough for her weight to be very noticeable, there are 3-4 of them or more, for every one of you.
Even SSBBWs who are big enough for their weight to significantly affect their life, there are plenty of them to have a reasonable chance to find one, but then you have to be prepared for them to feel miserable about their weight and hopefully you can love them for themselves and accept that they don't want to gain any weight, and hopefully still make their life better by loving them and accepting them, compared to a non-FA who might not find them as beautiful as you do.
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